I'm hoping ainbu as I'm so irritated about this Ds is 8 months old and all efforts to get him into a solid routine and settle without being breastfed have not gone well! Dh said he'd shower with ds before bed at 6ish, by 7 he was still watching videos on his phone (does this every bloody day) ds was grizzly so I fed him and he went to sleep. He often wakes up several times which he did tonight so I went in to settle him, dh walks in just as he's nodding off and says bring him in the shower, I said no as I'm trying to settle him back to sleep. Us talking disturbed ds and there he was bright eyed so dh keeps arguing saying 'let me take him in the shower' I said no and rather than waking him up further can we discuss it later and dh went off in a huff calling me a 'selfish nobhead'. Ds settled back to sleep 10 mins later. Spoke to dh and he's still annoyed with me saying I could have just let him put ds in the shower but I feel it was less about getting ds to sleep and more about dh. He's always going on about not getting to spend much time with ds but he continues to watch videos upstairs for 2 hours every day then complain when ds is asleep!
Am I being unreasonable or am I being too uptight? To me, putting ds in the shower with the lights on etc would just over stimulate him and reset the whole bedtime process!
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Bedtime routine....want to throttle dh
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GlenBelt · 26/08/2016 21:33
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