I'm a first time poster but long time lurker mostly I am sure of my 'reasonableness' but I am really struggling with this, sorry it's so long.
A few weeks ago I noticed a mole on my upper back, I noticed it because it was seriously itchy and sore. Upon looking at pictures from last summer I realised it was a new mole and after looking on the NHS site decided to book a GP appointment to ease my worries (I have cancer on both sides of my family but did not want to jump to conclusions).
Getting an appointment was extremely difficult I rang 41 times and spoke to 4 people but eventually I got one. Although the doctor I saw was lovely she said she had not got specific training in this area and booked me in with another doctor for a week later.
I spent a week worrying on an off the mole was still itchy and it was getting darker in colour since my last appointment, so I was relieved when I went yesterday to get it checked out by the 'specialist' doctor. However at my appointment he looked at it through a dermascope and told me its just a mole, then he turned back to his computer. When I asked about the itching, soreness change of colour and mentioned it was a new mole he dismissed me saying it was a mole (whilst still looking at his computer) and that he hadn't seen it changing. That was it, no compassion no eye contact, not even any discussion on what to do next he then continued to stare at his computer until I left.
So now I feel like I have spent 3ish weeks worrying about a mole that's still itchy and sore for no reason and I left the Doctors feeling like a great big timewaster, was IBU to make an appointment and do you think his behaviour was acceptable. Am still feeling very miserable about the whole experience.
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HeadsDownThumbsUpEveryone · 23/08/2016 08:59
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