AIBU in finding it utterly infuriating to ask my DD to do any kind of chore round the house?
Earlier today i asked her to wipe up some spilled water-it wasn't much maybe 1/3 of a standard small drinking glass. Instead of grabbing a floor cloth from under the sink and wiping it up she grabbed 4 clean tea towels and placed them on the floor, then used a SOFA CUSHION to wipe up the bits that had splashed up the walls. So now I have 4 tea towels and a cushion cover that need to go in the laundry.
Shes supposed to help empty the dishwasher but she dumped the entire contents on the cutlery rack in the drawer yesterday and I had to spend a further 10 minutes sorting it out. She puts the plates and bowls in such weird arrangement and they don't then stack properly, I then have to come behind her and sort it out so they stack.
If I fold and sort her laundry and leave it for her to put in her drawers she dumps the entire lot into the bottom of her wardrobe.
I don't think any of those chores are unreasonable for a 9 yr old and it's not as if she hasn't been shown how to do the jobs squillions of times.
I may have lost it a bit with the tea towels and sofa cushion this morning-I ended up raising my voice.
My husband says I'm too hard on her and shes only 9 and cant be expected to do these things properly.
My Mum says i'm far too soft on her and should be making her do these things over and over again until shes does them to a decent standard.
Am i asking too much? Her only set jobs are feeding the cats (which invariably ends up with cat food on the cats or floor) and keeping her own room tidy.
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My 9 year old DD -Helping round the house just makes more work
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fishandlilacs · 16/08/2016 09:46
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