Sons brain surgery turned me into a loon and my "friends" ditched me aibu to still be sad 9 months on?
I recognise that my behaviour leading up to my DS1 surgery last year, 15 hour operation to stop seizures, was fairly unpredictable; happy, sad, wingy etc. But I would have hoped my "friends" would understand. After surgery I found out I was pregnant which magnified my hormones and increased our daily drama.
I was in a group of 8 mums who met regularly and one by one they started turning on me, making out that I had somehow upset them and/just stopped talking to me. They all followed the same pattern.
As a direct result I started having panic attacks and feeling very paranoid. I removed said "friends" off social media cause I could cope with not knowing what I had done and feeling totally ostracised.
There is about a ton more detail but from what I can understand I really didn't feel like I have done anything to warrant being totally ignored and abused via text message.
I am so not over it and it's affecting me lots coming up to the anniversary of surgery and our DS2 arrival. DD still talks about one of the children she used to play with and it breaks my heart.
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AIBU to wonder wtf after sons brain surgery?
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ARCmummy · 12/08/2016 19:33
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