Honestly can't make my mind up about this one.
My 13 year old DS likes going to the skatepark. He goes there to play on his scooter. He's not mad about it like some boys, but still likes it quite alot. Also his best friend goes there every day. There are quite a few boys there he gets on with and I'm guessing most of them nice (I don't go up there myself as that would be a no-no!). But others are a bit more (cough) streetwise. Also, there are older boys - men really in their late teens and twenties - who my son tells me hang around there smoking on their vape pipes and smoking weed.
My son has always had a fairly long leash and plays out quite alot. I pretty much trust him, but obviously not 100% as he's still a scatty 13 year old. I am also very pleased he's not playing on his X box etc. He comes home at a reasonable time, etc etc.
But its the long Summer holidays. He seems to want to be there most days. I wish he would try other activities maybe with different friends. His current mates won't do anything else much, except occasional football.
A couple of my friends wouldn't let their kids 'hang out' at the skate park, and this has also made me question myself.
So, in conclusion, what I am saying is I don't mind him going there sometimes, but not too much. However, its difficult to put limits on where he goes. AIBU? Am I fretting unnecessarily?! Any suggestions or experience?
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WeAreGypsy · 08/08/2016 14:42
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