Colleague has 17 year old dd here at work this week for work experience. From what my colleague has told me, her dd hasn't done much in the last year since leaving school. She left school early due to bulling and seems to have low self steem/shyness.
She visited her local college last week to enroll on a 2 year Personal training and Exercise NVQ course, as she likes to go to the junior gym at her leisure centre. Her mum seems totally against the idea of her going into further education, and keeps urging her to apply for full times roles such a waitressing, shop work etc, and always mentions about her moving out and getting a little flat. She was filling out her college forms today and heard her snaps "2 years?! When are you going to start making money?"
Just now I've heard my colleague tell her daughter that if you're a maid in a hotel in a larger city, some places have dorms for them to live in which can save a lot of living expenses
Her mum had to go into further education to be in the role she is in now, so I can't understand why she doesn't want her to better herself. She seems to want her to move out.
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Elena567 · 02/08/2016 14:03
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