I don't mean all the time. If you were jealous all the time, that would be awful
But time and time again I see people on MN post a thread about how they're jealous of something or someone and then they get torn to pieces for it. Comments like :
'Ugh you're so bitter! Get over it!'
Or
'No one likes the green eyed monster! You sound very jealous.'
Or
'What a nice friend/sister/daughter you are being JEALOUS '
and similar.
No it's not a nice emotion to have, but neither is anger, or resentment, or vitriol or sadness, and a myriad of other things. But that never seems to get quite the same reaction
Surely by posting in this supposed safe space (hahaha!) the poster is taking the first step in addressing their jealousy and all of the emotions and feelings that go with it? In real life if I told someone I was jealous of something or someone my friends/family wouldn't jump on me in quite the same way, nor me on them
There just seems to be this notion on MN that if you're jealous you're a bad person when in reality I think it's something we all feel sometimes for a myriad of reasons. And like other feelings, you have to experience them rather than simply being able to 'get over it' simply.
AIBU?
Is this just an MN thing Or am I missing something?
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AIBU?
to think jealousy is a normal emotion and OK?
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faceymcfuckface · 01/08/2016 22:21
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