My partner of 5 years completely blindsided me last month and broke up with me saying that she needed time to fix her self as she was feeling angry all the time. She spent the entire month texting me each morning, saying she missed me, saying she wanted to be with me, that she loved me and wanted to fix us.
Then, last week, by text, she said that she was done and that we were not going to be getting back together :( Last month was hard but I clung on to her every word in hope that we would soon be back together but now, she has said there is no hope and I can hardly breathe... I feel sick and panicky, I am always crying. I just feel hopeless at the prospect of being without her... She was planning on proposing to me... she had chosen a ring... we had said we wanted kids in 2 years and we knew what kind of wedding we would have...
We also have a holiday booked for the 23rd and she is saying that she either wants all her money back or she is going on it... She has just text me saying that I am pressuring her and guilt tripping her, but yesterday she was saying that she is confused and upset by everything that is happening.
I was thinking I would leave her along for the next 10 days but send her a photo of us, with a little note saying "give us one more try" and her plane ticket... Then it is up to her... if she comes then she wants to try again, and if she doesn't then I guess I have tried everything.
AIBU to want to fight for this or should I just give up? Please someone tell me that this heartbreak gets easier
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NYC23 · 14/07/2016 07:50
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