DH and I have ds, 13 months. He has always been a crap sleeper, due to allergies and reflux which we have only really sorted in the last couple of months.
On the last two weeks he has been sleeping through and in his own room. It's been fantastic! Last weekend we woke early (as usual) bit unusually we were refreshed and energised! So we went out and had a great time, seeing friends and family etc. It was wonderful as usually we are like zombies and too tired to do anything.
Anyway, yesterday ds had his 1 year jabs, and as a result slept terribly. Awake at 11, 1.30 with high temperature and shaking, and again at 4.30. At 7, DH got up and started going on about getting up and going somewhere. I told him I was knackered and my head was banging and he went in a right strop. Complaining that after 1 great weekend it was back to normal, wasting the day, what was he supposed to do with ds etc. I said I only wanted to sleep till 9/9.30, and that we could go out then. His reply was that it would be too late to do anything then so another day wasted. I pointed out that a lot of our friends with babies take it in turns to have a lie in on the weekend and that he could have one tomorrow. He is one of these that once he is awake he is up for the day, but he can go back to sleep if he is very tired.
So apparently IABU for not getting up early after a rough night, but I think he IBU for taking the view that just because he is awake we all need to get up.
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Baby and weekend lie-ins
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HariboFrenzy · 25/06/2016 09:28
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