Background: ex partner and I no longer together, but I get on with both him and his family. DD's cousins are younger than her and go to the same school.
Cousin's parents both work full time however one has just started a new job working shifts (very early morning) every other week. As the other parent also starts work early I wondered how they would cope with childcare as breakfast club at the school doesn't open till 8am.
The job is in early stages but I think they've been asking another family member to look after their daughter. However, yesterday I was asked (at the school pick up run and totally put on spot) if I could have their child overnight last night and bring her to school today as they were starting work at 5am and 7am respectively.
I said yes, and she stayed. Girls didn't get to sleep until after ten as the little one couldn't sleep and kept my daughter awake. I was up till 1am as DD has chronic health condition only to be woken by child at 6am as she had wet the bed. This is a regular thing also.
She is family I know, but I'm dreading being asked again as I know they will now ask for this on a regular basis. I don't work currently but am going back to work soon and don't need this before a days work.
I need a way to say no to any overnight stays. They previously even expected me to have the child from 7am when they both had early starts without even consulting me first!
I'm so pissed off. With them and myself! Help!
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To not want to have someone else's child staying overnight on a regular basis?
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MsHybridFanGirl · 16/06/2016 09:13
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