Hi first time for me posting here but would love some advice. Have 11yr old twin ds and dd who for the most part are pretty good kids besides a bit of lip which I put down to hormones. They have a pretty close friendship group at a small village school of about 5 and have been pretty close as twins since they were born.
A little arguing is to be expected between siblings which I get but other day they really blew it big time literally. The rule in our house is home by 6 on a weekday from clubs or parks whatever bed by 9-9.30. There pretty independent so me and dh give them the freedom and trust that after dinner homework will be done before any screens, phones etc. This has worked out pretty well for the most part and homework is usually only half hour a night anyway.
Other me and dh were watching TV after a particular shitty day at MIL (whole other story for another day) and next thing we hear ds and dd in a screaming match in the games room. Dh gave the kids our old 45 inch TV for there gaming as a Christmas present last year. Ds plays destiny and Fifa, while dds obsessed with Minecraft and Xbox kinetic.
I got up to see what the hell was going on when the power went out. I go in to check on the kids with torch while dh goes to check power box and turns dd was playing Minecraft and it was ds turn to play. She wouldn't get off and ds has gone and tried to rip controller out of her hands only for it to be sent flying into TV and smash it up and short circuit the whole bloody house. 😡
We had to end getting in an electrician for £120 to fix the circuit and to say me and dh are bloody furious is an understatement. They have since both been very contrite and seem pretty sorry over the whole thing but I'm still pretty pissed. Me and dh had a long talk with both of them last night and they both equally owned up to their individual parts in it. We decided that they can use their paper round for the purchase of a new TV plus they both Lost their allowances for a month to pay for the electrician and no xbox for 2 weeks for either of them. They agree this is fair and so do we. Is this a suitable punishment or AIBU?
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Mommaoftwinsters · 08/06/2016 17:13
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