Hi all I'm new to mums net so not quite up to speed with the abbreviated text yet..
I've been with my partner for 4 years and all is happy we have 1 child together and have started to talk about a 2nd and own a house together so we are committed to each other in that sense.
The subject of marriage often comes up, he wants to get married and has said for most of our relationship he is ready to... I don't want to. I always assumed I'd get married one day but I was never to bothered.
About a year into our relationship I found out he had been engaged to his ex (something I found odd he had never told me, I found out by accident on Facebook) they had a big party celebration with all their friends and family, he still has the ring and I saw texts he sent her sister saying all he wanted was his fiancé back.
I hate the thought of being his second fiancé, knowing he has done it all before and all his family and friends have celebrated a previous engagement with him. He tells me I am begin unfair and punishing him for something he can't not change. AIBU to not want to get engaged/married because of this?
Thanks and sorry for the long post!
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starrystarrystars · 30/05/2016 10:54
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