We've been together for 16 years and I found out about his cross-dressing by accident nearly 3 years ago. I've tried and tried to come to terms with it but I can't. The stress of it all is making me unwell - I can't sleep, I'm in tears on a regular basis and there are times I want to hurt myself just to give myself something else to think about. I've had three useless attempts at counselling. One said it was my fault he cross-dressed, one said nothing at all and the other gave me three sessions and then said 'well, I think we're done, just remember to pop the Samaritans number in your phone'. This suggests to me I must be the one getting it all out of context and that somehow I should just accept this and carry on. AIBU to just admit I can't accept it and that we have no future together?
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To split from my DH because of his cross-dressing?
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Miso104 · 30/05/2016 00:17
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