My mother rang me this week to tell me she was about to cancel a holiday she’s booked for her and my dad for this summer, because she can't afford it. Dad’s retired on a state pension, mum’s self-employed with a very variable income that in the last few months has taken a huge dive. She's been teling me and everyone who'll listen how skint she is for months (or years).
From her tone I think she was hoping I’d say “don’t be silly, I’ll pay for it for you”. But I’m heartily sick of my mum’s inability to prioritise her spending; one week she’s complaining she’s broke, the next she’s booked six holidays for the year because they were “very good value”. She’s constantly complaining she’s skint, but as soon as she has a month with a marginally better pay packet she’s buying a new computer or booking a holiday.
Thing is, I can afford to pay for their holiday for them. I’m lucky enough to – for now, at least – earn a good living. Mum knows this (although perhaps not exactly how much I earn). But it’s barely a month since I last paid for a flight for her that she wanted but couldn’t really afford “because it’s a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity”, and I’m pissed off at being made to feel guilty about booking my own one luxury holiday a year for myself because she’s booked six cheap ones that she can’t afford.
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MrsBlackthorn · 24/05/2016 16:28
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