My father fractured his hip 3 weeks ago and has been staying with us for a week while he recovers. The same week, I started a new job - small company, working from home, but with quite a lot of stress about a technology we're using that will become obsolete and that I need to replace. My DH is out of the house for almost 12 hours a day, I'm at home 24 hours a day. My DF needs support - anything from understandable (urine bottle emptying, meals, drinks, washes, helping to the loo) to a little less so (debugging wifi printing on his ancient Vista laptop). This has led me to stress that I'm not doing enough at work.
This weekend there's a long (predating fracture) arrangement that my husband's friend will stay Saturday night before a local triathlon on Sunday. However the silly fool burnt his foot at a barbecue(!) and I found out tonight that he and my husband are planning a cycle (just an hour, he assures me) on Sunday. AIBU to think he should have been offering me some time alone, rather than taking more himself? Fully prepared for you to say yes - we've just " discussed" it and he thinks I'm totally unreasonable.
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FleshEmoji · 18/05/2016 21:08
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