My baby is 5 weeks old and cries. As babies do!
She cries when she's hungry, she cries when she needs or has done a poo, she cries when she has hiccups, she cries when she's tired and for all other reasons babies cry, so really she cries quite a bit.
This doesn't bother me, to me, she is just a normal baby doing what normal babies do.
My OHs family have other views. They think she is sick. Every time I see them they insist that I take her to see a doctor (which I haven't yet done) they pass her from person to person who each has a different way of trying to make her stop crying, which, pisses her off because all she wants to do is eat or sleep and therefore causes her to cry even more, which, in turn, makes them think that she is more poorly.
It's pissing me off.
I have seen midwives and my health visitor and they have said she is thriving, a touch of colic, but a perfectly healthy baby.
My baby gulps her food down and has a very healthy appetite, pretty much always finishes her bottles, does a big burp and then goes to sleep.
MIL doesn't like the way she gulps her bottle so she takes it off her and doesn't let her feed, which obviously leads to a crying baby, who is, of corse, poorly and needs to see a doctor!
It's wearing me down and making me feel like a bad parent, especially when my OH takes his families side over mine.
Am I out of order for not taking her to a doctor? I genuinely think she is just doing what babies do and isn't poorly at all
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BibbidiBobbidi · 15/05/2016 11:45
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