I genuinely am not sure so thought I'd ask, am nervous as normally lurk but here goes.
My ds aged 7 is an anxious child so we decided to find a counsellor who specialises in this to get him help now, so that he learns the tools to deal with this from a young age in the hope that as he gets older it will abate to a degree and if not then he'll having coping mechanisms. The counsellor asked to meet first and the charge was €80. She explained that it would be €70 thereafter and after 3 sessions she would meet to discuss.
As my dh works away, we tried to get dates to work around his work and my dc school and sports schedules etc and couldn't do a meet with the 3 of us so we decided that I would meet her. By this stage he had 5 sessions. Now here is my AIBU, I'm not sure if it's a little unfair that I was charged the full amount for a session to basically discuss what the previous €430 had been spent on? I appreciate that her time is effectively money but I don't have any other way to find out how he is doing/what he is doing. She doesn't discuss anything when his session is finished so my first discussion about the work she was doing was that one and was €70.
We don't have health insurance so the €500 to date is all out of our own pocket which is a massive amount to us, we decided to do this as there are mental health issues on both sides of our family and we thought it best to seek expert help as young as possible. Maybe it is unreasonable of me to feel a bit taken advantage of, as it seems harsh that the only way to find out about what you've been paying for is to pay more but I'm totally prepared to be told that this is the norm and I am unreasonable, would just appreciate knowing as its bugging me a little.
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honeybuffe · 02/05/2016 21:36
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