Ok, so it's not a traditional birthday party but my friends have organised a night out to celebrate my 21st tomorrow, my birthday is actually on Monday but I suppose that's not really relevant or important. We're going for a few drinks in a number of bars and then heading back to my friends house who is hosting everyone for my birthday.
I know that it's lovely they've organised a night out for me, they've all been telling me how excited they are and I genuinely appreciate the effort, kindness and thought they've put into organising it. Whether I want to or not tomorrow I'm definitely attending as I would never let them down in that way.
To minimise drip posts I'll mention that the reason I don't want to go is my ongoing mental health issues. Even with the massive progress I've made I still find it difficult to be in large groups even when those are compromised of friends. There's that and the fact that I'll be travelling an hour away from home for the night out and I'm not looking forward to the train journey home the next day hungover
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MarbleFox · 09/04/2016 01:16
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