Splitting up with Dh who is EA and FA. His control issues are such that he is refusing to engage in the process at all. Won't get a solicitor, won't talk and is ramping up the EA. Even told me my solicitor is wrong and he is right! We are married and own house outright. I don't want to have to move our 2 year old out, and I am by far and away the main carer. Dh works away half the week and from home the rest. I found out this weekend that he's been through all my stuff, had taken my laptop and copied the files etc. Long history of reading my phone - now all passwords changed but I foolishly thought we could behave like grown ups. He's sleeping in the spare riom. Would I be unreasonable to get a locksmith to put a lock on my bedroom door so I have somewhere safe to keep things while he's in the house alone. I have 2 days free though as usual have DS so don't fancy doing it myself
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