Would appreciate views on what is 'fair'.
We are Family A with full time nanny.
Family B want to share our nanny part time and happy to pay £6 per hour gross.
I am trying to figure out what would be a fair amount of this for us to keep vs. pass on to the nanny.
- We split it 50:50, with the nanny getting a payrise of £3ph gross and me getting a reduction on the cost of her by £3ph
- We recognise that the nanny is doing most of the work here (!) and give her £4ph, me getting reduction of £2ph
- We recognise that the quality of what I am getting (1:1 attention for my child) is now less than what I originally paid for, and therefore I get a bigger share e.g. £4ph reduction. She gets £2ph increase
Nanny is happy about the idea of sharing and doesn't like talking about money so will likely accept whatever I suggest. I don't want to screw her over but neither do I want to be a mug!