To get an harrassment order on my own sister?

Giddyups · 2016-02-10 17:14:53

A long while back there were some private Facebook messages between her and my boyfriend's ex (mother of his kids). I only found out because his ex brought those private messages out in a custody hearing for his kids, who used to live with her but now live with us. My sister gave her opinion on me to his ex which made me angry also because she had no right to be discussing me in private messages with his ex. So I posted a couple of months worth of Facebook posts about her to vent my anger, pretty nasty stuff admittedly and I made sure they were all public so her work colleagues, friends, the whole family, etc could view them, but I felt it was just vindication. She didn't post anything similar about me on her Facebook, and we haven't talked since. But them she posted on facebook asking me to return something I owed her which I refused to do, so I called the police on her as she was stalking my public Facebook profiles by viewing the posts (I think, I don't have proof) and harassing me with that post she wrote asking me to return something of her's. She's a single parent but now she has a police record from the harrasment notice she can't bother me anymore. I've posted on my Facebook that I did this being careful not to mention her, and a couple of people have 'liked' my post, including my family, so it was the right thing to do. She can't contact me anymore but I can keep posting about her ;) She works in a sensitive job environment where a police record will affect her but she deserves it. Family mediation isn't possible, I think she hates me. My other sibling exiled me too after we had a similar falling out some years back.

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