to not let DS go..

IICasparII · 2015-11-24 19:27:57

My trans DS (girl to boy) has asked if he can go to the trans pride parade in Brighton next year with his best friend who is a girl. They wanted to share a hotel room together which kind of put me off (they have had many sleepovers together but they've never been alone in the house together overnight)... When they would of gone she would of been 16 and him 15 so something could of happened as they would be alone . I know for a fact that they're both sensible and have no interest in drugs/alcohol so wouldn't try stay out in bars and clubs all night (and it'd be quite hard) but I feel they just shouldn't be left alone together. DS is very upset as he is newly out and doesn't socialise much so wanted to try meet new people like him. I should also mention that neither him or his friend are straight (DS is pansexual and friend is bisexual). I do feel it would do them good to have a taste of what life's like when they go for a short holiday, planning it all and paying for it themselves. But at the same time I feel that there are too many what ifs. WWYD?

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Hi all - we're going to pop this one down and take a closer look at things.