Hello
I'm desperate. It's a long story but I'll cut it short but try not to drop feed.
My mum lives alone in rented accommodation following my fathers death 2.5 years ago. They didn't have much money but what was there has all been spent on rent and living costs.
Mums health has declined in itself since dad died, chronic back pain caused by slipped discs and arthritis and depression that came with him dying and also the lack of independence she now has from the condition and also the fact that She has approx £80 per month to live on before buying food or doing anything. She gets ESA and housing benefit now she has no savings.
Her food bill is split between us 3 siblings. If we didn't buy her food she wouldn't eat, she's not even 7 storm in weight as it is
So 6 months ago we applied for her to go into affordable accommodation preferably ground floor because she finds the stairs hard some days, more so at present but also her rent could be a good £150 cheaper. Her GP supported this ans since we've been able to apply for suitable properties but so far not much luck, until a few weeks ago a little bungalow became available 6 doors up from my gran (her mum) and on the same estate her sister lives. It's a village location but she's been excited at the prospect as its the village we grew up in and would be perfect in so many ways, my children go to that school so we'd be able to see her often and she's able to get help from my aunt should she become immobile or in considerable pain.
So we've waited weeks and then we're told she's being considered please send relevant paperwork. I did all this and yesterday was told she's not being considered now because she doesn't have adequate funds and may not afford the rent. This is despite them seeing she receives HB on her current property. Because the bungalow is 2 bedroom she's not eligible for full HB due to bedroom tax, so would contribute £65 per month.
I'm helping out all I can, and have asked how I can appeal about this decision because we are in a Desperate situation as some nights she stays here as finds her stairs are too painful (we have downstairs toilet and shower) and I am worried for her emotional state.
So I'm going to pen a letter of appeal but I'm kindly asking does anyone know how I can strengthen this? I'm happy to go as guarantor as are my siblings or even have the DD coming from my own acc so they can be reassured the rent will be paid. I just feel desperately sad and have been tearful the last few days, I haven't even told her yet. She's worked right up until my dad died and is a shadow of her former self and I know she secretly had her hopes built on this bungalow due to being close to her mum
And sister and becoming more independent again.
If anyone can help me pen this letter I'd be so grateful
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MrChow · 03/10/2015 14:16
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