Long time lurker, first time poster...<br><br>Please help settle an argument between me and my OH (of 7 years - he drives me bonkers at times but 99% of the time very happy together).<br><br>He (at 19 years older than me) insists that only one woman in a million would behave like me - i.e. being quite physically affectionate and free with access to my body etc. We are by no means at it like rabbits (we're more a once a week type couple) - but first thing in the morning and last thing at night I always wake him up and put him to sleep with what we term a "fondle" of his nether regions. It's not a precursor to sex - more of an affectionate thing. Also, if he wants a bit of a boob play too, well, that's what they're there for... <br><br>To be clear - despite the age difference, it's not some weird sugar daddy / baby relationship, where the price of me sitting at home all day benefiting from his largesse is physical affection. We are otherwise a normal couple who both work full-time professional jobs - and if anything I am the one who earn more than he does! (No kids)<br><br>Surely it's not just me who shows love and affection in this way...??