I have a best friend of 20 years who is almost like family to me. She was single for a long time and happily has met a new man & its going well. I am really happy for her & that its going well.
However in the 5 months since they got together, I have barely seen or heard from her. She has moved in with new man, left the town she has lived in for 15 years and spends every waking moment with the new man. She also had another very close friend who she also has barely seen.
I know from my own relationship that in the early loved up phase you only want to be with that person & I do get that.
But we have gone from speaking 3 times a week for 20 years to nothing, barely a conversation. I know its the same for her other good friend too.
AIBU to say something? Its just so out of character. She seems to have gone from strong independent woman who valued her friends and social networks to none of that seemingly mattering anymore.
I know inevitably friendships change when you meet someone and I am happy for her but this feels so extreme, especially to move in after 5 months in a new town.
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Sussexbelle73 · 04/07/2015 18:55
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