Ok so a bit o a whiny moan here but I can't help it. I'm just fed up of everyone trying to organise my life at weekends. I work and run around after kids all week, our life is one big schedule. So why when people ask what I'm doing at the weekend and I say nothing, do they want to organise me to join in with their plans. I realise they are being kind but sometimes it's like they are horrified that I have no plans. Or if I turn down an invitation or say I don't want to take the kids to meet everyone at an event then they say oh we can take them, which is kind, but then I feel guilty so I go anyhow or feel I have to make an excuse. Sometimes I don't want to plan, sometimes I like being at home pottering around doing nothing or maybe just taking it as it comes. Is that so wrong?
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