DD is hopefully due to graduate this summer. She is allowed 2 guests to the ceremony, although there is an overflow with a screen in another building where other guests may attend, subject to availability.<br><br>We have supported DD throughout her education including private school and paying rent and an allowance, car, 'phone etc whilst she has been at uni, very willingly and happily, although she has the usual loans. However, I must admit that I was looking forward to her graduation ceremony and I have booked trains, hotels and restaurants etc for the two day period, as it is about 200 miles away.<br><br>Now it seems that her boyfriend, whom she met in the 2nd year and has just moved in with (he graduates next year as it is a 4 year course) is expecting to have one of the tickets to the graduation. My DD feels caught 'in the middle' and full of stress and worry, which are adding to exam stress, to the extent where she is dreading her own graduation. I have said that the last thing we want to do is cause any worry for her and that DH and I will just have one ticket if necessary.<br><br>But AIBU to be disappointed about this?