Friend moved out of houseshare this morning (we share with each other and a random guy who is not often here) after argument. Argument was over an incident between us that had been building for a while and she couldn't/wouldn't see my side of things (for context she was objectively "in the wrong" over this incident but wouldn't recognise this). I wasn't looking for anything special just wanted to get across my feelings to her and the hurt I felt as a result of her actions... I said I didn't see need for drama but that I would have to re-think things between us as she just couldn't even try to see where I was coming from (long-standing friendship). Stayed at boyfriend's last night to give me time to cool off.
Have just returned to the house to sleep it off as was up all night worrying and it looks like she and her brother are moving her things out! There is still a few more months left on the lease. Im not worried about the money as we have separate contracts with the LL. Just wondering whether I should have held my piece?? And also feel as if I have been made to be the aggressor/she is the victim by doing this, am I being unfair? I feel like she is doing this to punish me :(
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LimaMaria · 15/05/2015 14:55
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