I am the main wage earner in our house, I am a research consultant and also completing a full time phd. Because I can be flexible in my hours it just always is assumed I'll pick up all slack. Dh has on and off contract work with family business. Its just assumed by him and by all his family that he can work whenever amd I'll sort children, childcare etc. What this results in is me always compromising my work and then working late into the evenings and weekends to catch up. Just fed up with it being this constant assumption and not being a consultation about what we do when. Feel I am supposed to play sahm alongside full time working mum - frankly its exhausting. We do have childcare three days a week, so it means me not working the other two days and juggling these into evenings, weekends etc. I normally get less than a few days warning and now don't even bother planning meetings these days but have them as work at home, knowing there is a good chance I'll lose them. If I raise it I'm accused of thinking my job is more important, which when it is our only steady income, I kinda think it is!! Aibu??
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fed up with feeling like I'm always the default parent....
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LeftOftheRight · 27/04/2015 18:26
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