So based on this one event only who is BU?
At Sil wedding about 4 years ago, dd1 was 7. We were all staying in a very posh hotel for a few nights which Sil stays at often. Lovely wedding, lovely hotel, no complaints.
Dd1 bumped into a table in the reception area and the marble top fell off and landed on her foot. She was in a lot of pain and we thought it might be broken,, swelled up instantly and went black. friend of il's is a doctor and got dd some ice and paracetamol and the swelling went down quite quickly. Fil shouted at dd for touching things she shouldnt have (she bumped into the table, she has dyspraxia and bumps into things alot). I was annoyed at the time with fil for shouting at dd and with the hotel for having a marble top on a table that was not fastened down.
So at pil this week and it got brought up again with fil saying it was dd's fault, I said that no way was it dd's fault and I would have been very mad with the hotel had she injured herself. Fil said did I expect everything to be nailed down to prevent childern from hurting themselves and suggested that children should learn not to touch/be near things which are not safe (a table well known for its danger to children).
So who is BU?
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AIBU?
me or fil? its got weddings, elf and safety and a table. Oh and its FIL just so you know.
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ditavonteesed · 02/04/2015 07:20
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