My sister is putting me under severe pressure to visit our mother more often than I currently do.
Mum has been diagnosed with early onset dementia, she lives on her own but my dad lives nearby & they are still close & get on well(ish)
There's a big family of us, five girls & some boys but I'm the only girl who works full time (6pm 5 days a week) plus evening meetings a few times a month.
I visit my parents about twice or three times a month, usually late in the evening or a Sunday morning (ie: times that suit me & fit my family life; ds & dh plays sport, we've only one car so if dh has sport I'm housebound) they live about 40 minutes away.
Now my sister is saying that mums dementia isn't bad enough to look for carers but that WE all need to do our bit & take on a larger role.
I don't feel it should be pushed on them (they live within walking distance, one is sahm to teenagers & the other works til lunch time week days) but I just don't know how I can fit more visits in!!
I was wondering if this is common in families?
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Evabeaversprotege · 01/03/2015 16:01
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