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AIBU?

to move DS

16 replies

GingerCuddleMonster · 28/01/2015 23:08

he's 6mo and fast asleep on the double bed next to me, there's only me as dp is away, he looks so peacefuland happy, but I can't leave him there can I?...

now I know he will wake up when I try and transfer so I may just leave him there for a bit longer whilst I mumsnet .

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chillybillybob · 28/01/2015 23:12

Why can't you?

GingerCuddleMonster · 28/01/2015 23:15

he will wake, this will then result in about an hour to two hours of rocking/feeding to restore the peace he was playing but a minute ago and now he's just zonked out

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Parietal · 28/01/2015 23:19

sure you can leave him there, at least while you are awake. in 20 mins he may be much more deeply asleep and transfer to his cot without waking!

Greencurtain · 28/01/2015 23:22

He could roll onto floor so unless you have something in place to prevent that, I'd move him. I coslept with mine, it is lovely but you need to do it safely.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 28/01/2015 23:25

I agree with leaving him for a bit so he is deeply asleep whilst you MN and enjoy watching him. I still love watching my DC sleep even though they are much older they still look so innocent.

GingerCuddleMonster · 28/01/2015 23:25

double bed is pushed up against wall, he's on the wall side, he can't roll out, but I dent leave him there all night, I'll just wait for him to drop in to a deep sleep as mentioned and attempt the transfer to cot, but I won't hold my breath that it will happen without rousing him .

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DisappointedOne · 28/01/2015 23:26

What are you worried about?

GingerCuddleMonster · 28/01/2015 23:27

waking the craken, and him screaming the place down for the next hour is one worry

leaving him there, the co sleeping thing makes me uneasy I've never been told how to do it properly so never attempted it.

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chillybillybob · 29/01/2015 00:01

Sorry I meant why can't you leave him there? Are you not comfortable with co sleeping?

Clobbered · 29/01/2015 00:04

Just snuggle up and enjoy!

Coyoacan · 29/01/2015 00:10

He's big enough for you to safely co-sleep, my dd has been co-sleeping with dgd since she was born. The main danger seems to be if you have been drinking or taking drugs

chillybillybob · 29/01/2015 00:12

Think op has fell asleep. Hopefully you will both get a good night.

GingerCuddleMonster · 29/01/2015 10:19

I moved him in to the cot he DoD wake but after a feed went straight back to sleep, he then continued to wake every 40mins what a night, coffee today and snoozing when he does I think.

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crazylady12 · 29/01/2015 11:10

Nothing wrong with a cuddle I cosleep with my 13 month old have done from.day one she fell out of bed for the first time last night even though she can now get off herself x

crazylady12 · 29/01/2015 11:12

If you did want to do it no pillow give him his own blanket and make sure he can't fall out that's she safe way but it's what your comfortable with my daughter had silent reflux so I gave in and gave her a pillow after a week x

Hoppinggreen · 29/01/2015 11:15

If it happens again just make sure he is on top of the covers with his own blanket and put a pillow longways between you and him and leave him there.

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