I guess i know iabu but this does bother me enough to get flamed lol.
Me and the H are separated. He wants to go to counselling in the new year. His mother is someone who is used to everything being her way. She is quite difficult and ive caught her telling lies about me and more recently calling me while on the phone to my 3 yr old ds. She has also criticised me over lunch to my 4 yr old dd. the separation is because my H checked out of out marriage emotionally. So no affair or anything on my part!
Anyway, i probably have a screwed view as my own DM never didnt buy a present and a card for by bros ex after they split, and theyve been split 17 years, because she is the mother of her grandchild. So my MiL treating me like i dont exist (whoch tbf did start way before the separation) confuses me. I honestly just want to say well sod you. You cant acknowledge the mother of your grandchildren, you dont get to play happy families with MY children!
Ok. Got that off my chest. So i guess my actual question is how many of you peoples ex-MiLs still acknowledge your existence?
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...to think STBEMiL shouldnt ignore me (the mother of her gc).
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CalleighDoodle · 29/12/2014 10:01
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