Bit of background: I live abroad and have found it very hard to make friends with like-minded people. I have known an English girl for a few years now and she has become a "good" friend. We see each other regularly.
Granted I don´t live in the prettiest of areas, it´s very urban and on the outskirts of a very big city. However, there are worse places and it´s my "home". I live in a flat.
Recently, said friend has started making comments about where I live. She makes references to the large amount of immigrants living here, the transient population as she calls it, the fact (according to her) that the schools aren´t so good, oh and a more recent disparaging comment of how I live in a flat, implying that this is a bad thing.
In truth I am not sure where she gets her "facts" from being that she doesn´t actually live here herself
She seems to think that by living in a house out in the suburbs this makes her somewhat superior to me. Or at least that is the impression I get.
I suppose I should just let her comments roll off my back but it´s starting to really niggle me. If she is so shallow as to be bothered where I live then I suppose she isn´t a friend at all...or am I being over-sensitive?
I have so few friends where I live I admit to holding on for the sake of company, somebody to have a chat and a moan with. In other ways she´s really good.
What would you do? I don´t really want to tackle her over it but if I start making excuses not to see her she´ll smell a rat. Maybe I should just cut my losses...life´s too short.
Anybody offer any witty retorts if nothing else?
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to let this "friend"´s comments bother me?
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fedupfriend · 20/11/2014 21:12
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