He has house on south coast. I rent flat in Home Counties. He lives with me in the week cos his work is here and then goes to house at weekends. I sometimes go but don't enjoy. Not my place, not got my things, he lies on sofa, I sit at end of sofa. In flat he gets home first and lies on sofa. Gets up to make me coffee when I come in. Then his dog lies on sofa.
I am then asked what's for dinner....... I am tired, work twelve hour days. I get up at 5.30(dog immediately comes in to get on bed)to get to work at 6.30. He leaves for work at 7.50am and home at 5.30pm. [I'm not really great dog lover].
I pay rent, bills etc for flat, he is supposed to give me 30%. This month he was short cos dog vet bill £40
I told him not going to Coast house as want time on my own.
He says okay. He hasn't a clue how unhappy I am.
Am I being unreasonable to expect him to realise how miserable he is making me, without me telling him, AGAIN. And for him to do something about it.
Oh and I snore, loudly apparently, SO it's my flat. I am the one to go and sleep on sofa bed or in his house sofa in lounge. He can't, of course, cos of his back!!!!!
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Tapestry12 · 22/08/2014 20:29
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