What's the assumption? That we'll sit around twiddling our thumbs until they make up their fecking minds?
Phone call on Thursday.
"I thought I'd visit for the weekend."
Er, no. We've made plans. Both had the weekend off work. Was DS's birthday, taking him and a friend to theme park and the beach.
Fine if she wants to visit/join us but why leave it so late?
Fast forward to Monday. She's now visiting 'this week'. Can we narrow it down? Busy week. DS's last week of primary school - lots of parties, leaver assemblies, etc.
Now we have 'Wednesday'. Great. but what frigging time?
I have my parents round for a roast every Wednesday, is the last day of term so there's a leaving 'thing' at school and DS wants to have his friend round.
Just tried calling. No answer. MiL is always like this. Really vague. Lives over 100 miles away but we don't see a lot of her but whenever we do everything is such a faff.
She's also a 'late person'. Likes to leave at least 30 minutes late for everything. Seems to get a thrill from almost missing trains and stuff and leaving people sitting alone in pubs waiting for her.
AIBU to just make plans regardless? Go to the school thing, cook dinner for my parents, invite DS's friend round and if she turns up she'll just have to slot into our plans?
DP is off, he can pick her up from whatever station she ends up at and I just get on with my damn life??
Fair?
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People who don't tell you what they're bloody doing. (MiL related).
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KingJoffreysBloodshotEye · 22/07/2014 14:01
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