Hi all,
Now don't get me wrong...I'm lucky - I have a lovely husband...I have a lovely child...I have a reasonably well paid job (by countrywide standards - nowt to shout about!) in a major city. Though my husband is a stay at home dad we do have additional financial support (he owns a rented property) which enables us to keep our child in the education we'd like to keep him in. So far so no reason to whinge....
My husband is older and has felt for a long time that he should be the provider, I have no issue with being the major breadwinner but as time has gone on him being the major wage earner has become more and more of an issue and equally less of a probability...as I am the only person capable of earning anything near a sensible living wage.
The above represents 5 yrs ago - fast forward to now - this is the life we're living and continue to do so. All fine but it's total limbo..I keep waiting for it to explode given that people can only take so much.
I love my husband. I love my child. So the aibu (if that is what it is) is perhaps more of a wwyd?? Keep treading water in L**n or run away elsewhere where we could potentially work just as well, in just as good schools, and live in a nicer house...! WWYD?
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danielsmum81 · 12/04/2014 21:17
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