to be absolutely horrifed.

[southernbelle1]

that a family member has left a 10 and 11 year old home alone for three days?

I don't know for def, but it was implied

[PortofinoRevisited]

Have you called the police, or are you just looking from some MN frothing?

[lessonsintightropes]

YANBU and utterly illegal and wrong. Poor kids.

[GilmoursPillow]

Best you find out for sure then.

If it's true I reckon you should report to the police, if it's not I reckon you should get this post removed.

[southernbelle1]

It is not in this country and is not illegal where they live

[itiswhatitiswhatitis]

Well you need to find out for sure and then take action.

[WorraLiberty]

I couldn't get shocked or horrified at an implication

Something as important as this would prompt me to ask them outright

[shakinstevenslovechild]

I imply that I lock my children in cupboards, that I have vallium and vodka at 7am, that I let my dc play in the middle of roads and about a zillion other things that aren't true.

What makes you think it isn't one of the jokey things parents say?

Did you ask what they meant after it was implied?

What are the parents like with their dc generally?

[southernbelle1]

It is not illegal and there is nothing i can do unless I step on a plane and fly over to them. There are supposedly ppl popping in to see they are ok and they have emergency contact numbers. Doesn't make me worry any less.

[southernbelle1]

I don't speak to this family member but was told by another family member that they had been told this was going to happen. They go out until 2am and leave them alone.

I do believe it :(

[Bowlersarm]

If it's true, it's not so good.

[southernbelle1]

yeah, i will butt out. Might save heartache over something I cannot change

[southernbelle1]

The ostrich approach is always a good one

[Realitybitesyourbum]

Better hope something doesn't happen to them then! On your conscious be it.

[ItsAllGoingToBeFine]

They will probably be fine. Chill.

[Peekingduck]

Reality, what do you suggest Op should do? Serious question.

[southernbelle1]

My hands are tied, but I appreciate the sounding board.

[jacks365]

If there is nothing you can do then there is nothing you can do. I hope it does work out ok.

[Realitybitesyourbum]

surely a phone call to someone? message on facebook?

[Birdsgottafly]

If you mean that it is not illegal in the UK, it comes under Neglect and Child abandonment (as well as other laws), so it is illegal.

It is very different to going out for the evening.

As you are not in the same country, you will have to just befriend the children via the internet and remind the parents for this to work, the children need a good support system.

[Birdsgottafly]

Could you befriend one of the people supporting the children, as well?

Some societies are not as open about abuse, especially sexual, so you could try to share your knowledge to help the children.