At the moment I look after my toddler and preschooler full time. My daughter takes quite a bit of coaxing to go to bed but I'm normally down the stairs just before 8pm. I start work at 8pm, I usually fuvish just after 9.30 then I just about have enough time to hang the laundry before my daughter's up again, wanting me to sleep by her side. I know I need to sort the sleeping thing out but my four year old has had breathing problems since she was born and has been in hospital several times needing nebulisers. If I were to leave her to cry she would start breathing uncontrollably and scratch her eczema on her wrists till they bleed so I just can't seem to change the sleep issue at the moment.
So I'm just a bit knackered I think and I'm not getting any time to exercise so I feel a bit rubbish about myself. I'm quite concerned about health in general as I've recently lost my mum and Aunty who we're only in their sixties so u really want to look after myself we'll and be there for my kids.
I took on the evening work when we were short of cash. The money has been nice but we don't really need it any more. I feel very guilty letting my students down though. What would you do? Maybe everyone's life is like this and I just need to readjust my expectations?
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benetint · 31/01/2014 13:01
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