Just hoping for a bit of perspective from an outside source.
I've been on mat leave and am due to go back to work soon. I know there have been some changes whilst i've been away so i contacted work recently to confirm whether my job had been affected and if so, what hours and days i would be expected to do upon my return. I was clear that my intention was to return unless the new hours/days made this impossible and that if this was the case, then i would let them know asap. I wanted to be up front and as fair as possible as i've worked there for quite a few years and it's a small team who know each other well.
I heard nothing, so having contacted them again i was then informed that there is no work at the moment so no hours available for the next few months. It was also a bit sketchy as to what i'll be working when work picks up in a few months.
While this news didn't come as a complete surprise (i know that things have not been going well for them) i am upset that i've only just been informed - with just over one week until i'm due to return. They must've known they were going to lay me off for a few months and the more i think about it the more upset i am that i have not been kept informed.
I've given this company a good chunk of my working life and now i feel like they couldn't give a crap about that. I was told that they would understand if i decided i had to find something else. I feel like i've been left with no choice.
Like many small businesses, this place relies on the goodwill of others and the fact that we are 'friends' as well as employees. Because of this, and because i'm a very unconfrontational person and because this news was delivered in a very friendly polite manner i would find it difficult taking this matter further, however, i also think that if we really were 'friends' things would have been handled very differently and that they're hoping i'll quietly ignore that fact that i have pretty much lost my job as i know it.
aibu to feel upset at this situation or should i just accept there is no work and suck it up?
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