Dc (nearly 4) is in nursery, and fully toilet trained. Have not experienced any accidents in months but unfortunately today did a rather runny poo in nursery, most of it in her underwear. She was very upset about this when we got home, and seemed generally a little unwell so had a good cry while being cuddled in my lap. She then told me with a quivering lip that some poo went on the floor and a teacher had to clean it. I reassured her its ok accidents happen, and she said 'but mummy, the lady said am dirty!' I told her she isn't dirty and the teacher did not mean it, its not nice cleaning poo and she meant poo is dirty.
Anyway she was ok after a short while but I felt a little annoyed as that label of being dirty had made her feel so sad. (I know dc can make things up, but I know when she is fibbing or making up stories, and I have every reason to believe her as she likes to tell me all the nitty gritty details of everything and its usually always accurate).
Dc is at the stage of still getting used to nursery but as she is extremely shy and more or less mute while there so it is quite tough and emotionally draining for her. She told me she did not eat her yogurt in packed lunch other day as she couldn't open it and I wasn't there to open it, but didn't want to speak and ask the staff for help. So we have a lot of obstacles for the poor lamb to overcome yet! However I dont want the toilet becoming an issue too. Hopefully this was a one-off but calling her dirty is not great for the little confidence she has and I cant help feeling slightly annoyed. I know I may be being a little OTT but it breaks my heart to think she will have been so upset (she wails if her sleeves get wet while washing hands, she's THAT sort of child) and must have felt mortified at soiling her clothes. I won't be making an issue of it, but Aibu to think nursery staff should watch what they say, no matter what minging toilet mess the kids make?
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To think its a bit mean calling a 3 year old 'dirty'
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WahIzzit · 26/09/2013 23:29
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