Slight double meaning to this thread - I think that DH both physically spends too much time in the house, and also that his life is too family/house oriented.
DH works from home so doesn't need to leave the house for work. He meets up with old friends a couple of time a year, but other than that doesn't really have any friends - at least not ones he keeps in touch with beyond Facebook. His hobbies are things like watching films, so don't involve any social interaction or leaving the house ...
In the last 7 days, here's the times when he's left the house (and this is fairly typical)
Saturday - stayed at home
Sunday - took DS to sports club, hung around and watched, took him home
Monday - stayed at home
Tuesday - popped to shops for a few bits
Wednesday - stayed at home
Thursday - picked DS up from after school club
Friday -picked DD up from school
... that's it. Nothing social (he avoids talking to e.g. other parents though does chat to work colleagues on the phone) and very little time out of doors. (I generally persuade him to come out to the park or something with the family about every other week, but he mostly comes on sufferance and says he finds this dull). DH says he likes his life this way, but I am worried that he is getting depressed and is too focused on his family/home for his wellbeing (huge pressure on us to "amuse" him). I also feel stifled that I never get to be in the house on my own!! (yes, I realise this last one is "my" problem).
Dunno, his lifestyle just doesn't seem healthy ... what do others think?
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to think my DH should get out more ...?
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TreesAndFlowers · 13/09/2013 14:16
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