Trying to keep this non-ranty! My middle brother has got engaged after 6 months- nothing wrong with that. They have set the date for THREE years from now and have told all family to save the date. So far so reasonable but They have then decided they need to pay for the wedding, buy a house and have a baby not long after so moved back into my parents home, saying it would be for six months whilst they saved up someone money. 9 months later... Well they redecorated the room they're "temporarily" staying in, bought new bedroom furniture, bought a new fridge/freezer and installed it in my parents kitchen, knocking out a cupboard in process and insisted their pet rabbits stay in their room which have subsequently destroyed the wallpaper in my parents house but not offered to repair/compensate meanwhile they've bought rolls or designer wallpaper for their future house which so far does not exist! They've paid no bills or rent to my parents and this week are off on a holiday to New York where they've paid for helicopter rides etc.
But they haven't got enough money to buy any biirthday presents etc or chip in to household bills. In meantime I'm getting daily fb notices about wedding details- they've already put deposit down on venue, cake and started to order decorations.
Would I be unreasonable to tell them I think they're taking the piss with my parents?? And that three years is a long time to keep up that level of excitement??
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Aibu to think all siblings should be fair to their parents when they're grown ups? Bridezilla alert!
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Caffe1neAddict · 26/08/2013 22:28
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