I know not only am I being unreasonable but am also causing problems for myself but can't bring myself to care.
I had started a topic in relationships but don't know how to link so a brief summary is, My stbxh and I split up almost 4 years ago while I was pregnant with our much planned for 6th child, we stupidly got back together 2 years ago although the trust was gone on my part then separated again in February of this year.
And me being even more stupid i started sleeping with him again a few months ago although knew we couldn't live together but thought we were dating again only to be told last week that he has met someone else and wants to make a go of it with her, he swears that he didn't sleep with her while with me but needs to give it a try.
It shouldn't matter to me we were not properly together but it does really bother me , I had met him when I was 16 and he was the only person I have ever slept with.
sorry that wasn't brief.
The part that I am unreasonable about is he normally has the kids while I work but is unavailable tomorrow due to a meeting he can't get out of and he wants the gf to watch my youngest 2 children and I told him no ,which he can't understand as she watched them 2 weeks ago, and the kids love and adore her. but I can't bring myself to let her as I thought she was someone I was becoming friends with.
If you've managed to get thru all that well done.
I suppose i'm asking am I being unreasonable to say no I would rather take them to work with me (which isn't a problem) or should I bite the bullet and say ok she can have them.
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dementedmumof6 · 22/08/2013 23:00
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