I've name changed as I'm newly pregnant, and I'm not quite ready to out myself.
We had an early scan (8 weeks) due to some health issues and as everything was alright, we decided to tell the In laws. If my mum was still alive I would have called her the day I did the test, so don't feel it's fair to stop DP telling his mum, despite the fact when we told them about DD, she told the rest of the family before we had a chance, which at the time I felt was a little unfair.
Anyway, here is where I need to know if I am being unreasonable, apparently MiL is happy for us, but wasn't very excited, and definitely not as excited as she was about DD. I've had issues in the past where I've felt the MiL was happy to show off DD but has never really taken the time to get to know her or take an interest in her.
Am I wrong to think that she should be just as excited about this new baby, and fear that this baby may play second fiddle to DD in MiL's eyes?
DP seems to think it's not unusual and that I'm over thinking it by being a bit deflated by MiL's reaction.
One last point before I turn myself over to the MN jury (and I am prepared to be told IABU) FiL is happy and very excited, but he's always been more invested in a relationship DD, and has always made time for her, and seems to genuinely want to spend time with her.
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PseudonymForProtection · 06/08/2013 13:59
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