Exp has cancelled contact today right at last min, me an dd were already on our way having bought a day ticket specifically. This is the 5th time in the 18weeks contact has been ongoing that he has cancelled with 2hours notice or less.
He is supposed to call the contact centre to cancel and they Should then inform me. This has never happened he has always text me direct which is a breach of his bail conditions. He has been reminded by the centre each time etc
So my potential solution is.
Tell him (through contact centre) that he must ring the centre the day before contact during their opening hours and confirm if he is coming the next day. They can then call me and confirm.
Pros,
I will know the day before hand and can make plans to take dd out if he cancels (as opposed to being halfway there)
He will have to contact the centre not me
Cons
He is they type that never has credit, a charge, change for call box, thinks to ask nicely to use a mates phone and I am worried that if I make it difficult for him he will stop bothering.
Thing is dd is 16mo now and doesn't really know either way yet but he has been late (by between ten and thirty mins) or ended early (by ten to twenty mins) all bar 2 of the 13 out of 18 sessions.
At some point all this is going to be very upsetting for her and I just want to minimise the upset for us both
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HerrenaHarridan · 15/06/2013 22:59
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