Knowing full well they are going to buy alcohol with it?
Close family member has an alcohol addiction, he doesn't work and benefits were stopped 3 weeks ago after a medical decided he was fit to work. His last payment was for £120 which he used for electric/food and most likely alcohol.
He came to visit me yesterday saying he doesn't have a penny until tomorrow and could I lend him £20 and I did. Now my sister has given me grief because she just seen him pissed as a fart walking down the street.
When I gave him the money I half knew he'd buy drink and some food and probably a fiver or so in the meterin but I was torn.
Now WIBU to give him the money? My sister said I could have bought the shopping and topped up his metre but I just don't know. It's so hard. Having no money is bloody miserable and he needed electric. I've just had surgery so can't get out even if I had bought his shopping for him.
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ChewinTheFat · 13/02/2013 15:52
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