DS is 9months and has started pulling himself up on the furniture, cruising about, and also crawls around at great speed
Anyway DM sees him often (every 2/3 days ish) and seems very worried by this latest development. She shadows him everywhere he crawls and keeps a hand behind him every time he surfs the sofa . And when he falls a bit roughly on his bottom (still not quite mastered this bit ) she does that sharp intake of breath thing.
I tend to let DS get on with exploring, staying close, but maybe sitting on sofa with a cup of tea, ready to rush in should he look like he is in trouble. He's had a few little bumps but I figure that's all part of it. I worry that DM's constant panicking and helicoptering is just going to make him more afraid and nervous.
But prepared to accept it if you say IABU and should be more like DM (not sure what the norm is, really)
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To ask DM to back off a bit
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AThousandNamesNoneOfThemMyOwn · 12/02/2013 14:51
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