Now would be a bad time to move. I'm four months pregnant, we already have a 19 month old, our house is perfect for our needs and we live over the road from a great hospital where I had dd.
But I really, really want to get the hell out of London. We looked at a number of houses before I got pregnant, but nothing was just right or our offer wasn't accepted. We're not even sure where we want to move to - I love Sussex, but houses in the locations we like that are commutable for dh are at London prices and we'd have dh's train fare to factor in. Seems a bit mad to move out of London then downgrade on house. We've looked around Kent, which is good value for money and has free grammar schools, but don't really know it and don't have any friends there.
Dh regards the idea of commuting with dread - he found it hard enough moving from zone 1 where he could walk to work, to zone 2 when we bought this place as he now has an hour on public transport. So I'm probably BU wanting him to commute full stop.
But then I walk out onto our local high street, with its miserable fried chicken joints, and payday loan shops, and litter, and people spitting, and I think my god, there are so many nice places in the world, why do we live here?
Then I'm reminded that we have lovely friends here. Mum friends who have made going to toddler groups and getting through the tough first months of motherhood into a pleasure, and who have been so supportive through this pregnancy and who I know stand ready to help out when the new dc arrives (no family near). Why would I leave them behind?
We are on Rightmove every bloomin evening. Completely addicted. And I've just booked to go and look at two houses down in Sussex. I'm so, so excited about the possibility of living in one of them. But I'm being ridiculous aren't I? Should I cancel?
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Rhubarbgarden · 28/01/2012 13:32
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