In a nutshell my Mum has spent through all her life savings on this man in little under 18 months. He has told her a pack of lies such as his name (I know how abnormal) and where he was living and certain aspects about his past are questionable. He has a thing for older ladies. He left his last relationship ( she was 70 to his 46) and met my mum and started by claiming to be self employed. He has been on benefits for years it has transpired.
On the occassions I have met him he has just about met my gaze, refuses to engage with my children. When my son spoke to him he picked up his paper and my mum had to come into the room and indicate that gs was speaking to him - to which he just grunted and shoved the newspaper back up.
My children do not feel comfortable around this man so my mum just comes to my house now to see them.
I am worried that the next move will be to 'encourage' her to sell her little starter home. She has been dropping hints that this is being considered.
I am furious.
He already has got a car and a new caravan which he has made sure has been put in his name all with the promise that he will pay her back......
She has now told me after months of dishonesty the extent of the leeching and her concerns about how she will manage.
Do I keep my nose out?
My mum is what I would consider a vunerable person. She is trusting and needy.
What would you do?
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In wanting to tell the waster my Mum has become embroiled with his fortune?
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Puspopper · 01/12/2011 12:58
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